We all want our wedding day to be the most perfect day of our lives and, on whole, most people manage to make this happen. However, you may feel the pressure to plan this perfect day, and this type of pressure could cause you to make key mistakes. There are a few things that you should consider, and doing so can assure you of the perfect wedding day.
Location, time and guest list
Unfortunately, nothing causes a good family argument like a wedding, so it is important that you think ahead. If you plan to invite everybody you know, then it is vital that you choose a location that they would all be able to get to easily. Problems occur, for example, if you expect guests to pay for accommodation, as some won't be able to afford this. If you do want to get married a distance from your home, then make it clear that there is no pressure from you for people to attend as long as they are sending their best wishes.
Key ceremony positions
You need to make sure that the people you love are involved in the right way. This means that you should carefully consider your maid of honour, bridesmaids, best man and pageboys, if you choose to have them, and you should also decide well in advance who gets to sit at the top table during the reception after the ceremony. Although you have better things to think about on your big day, your guests may read more into these types of positions than you would, meaning that it's important to think about who's doing what, and why, in case of any awkward questions.
The service and the vows
One thing that a lot of people search for is a unique personal wedding service. This might mean writing your own vows, choosing special music or picking a certain group to entertain guests, but it is important that you think about this as soon as you possibly can. In the case of the vows, only you know what you want to say, but you may find that you need help from friends or family to shape the words into the exact meaning that you are trying to portray. Most will be happy and willing to help if you give them the chance.
On the day
It is crucial that you have a detail plan of the timings of each event on the day. This includes waking up, getting dress, having make up done and being picked up from your home. Doing this can prevent anything from going wrong, and can help to ensure that everybody is where they need to be at the right time.
Generally, if you take everything that could possibly be an issue into consideration, you should find that you are able to put plans in place to prevent this well in advance. This means that you can sit back and enjoy a day that you are going to remember for the rest of your life.
Location, time and guest list
Unfortunately, nothing causes a good family argument like a wedding, so it is important that you think ahead. If you plan to invite everybody you know, then it is vital that you choose a location that they would all be able to get to easily. Problems occur, for example, if you expect guests to pay for accommodation, as some won't be able to afford this. If you do want to get married a distance from your home, then make it clear that there is no pressure from you for people to attend as long as they are sending their best wishes.
Key ceremony positions
You need to make sure that the people you love are involved in the right way. This means that you should carefully consider your maid of honour, bridesmaids, best man and pageboys, if you choose to have them, and you should also decide well in advance who gets to sit at the top table during the reception after the ceremony. Although you have better things to think about on your big day, your guests may read more into these types of positions than you would, meaning that it's important to think about who's doing what, and why, in case of any awkward questions.
The service and the vows
One thing that a lot of people search for is a unique personal wedding service. This might mean writing your own vows, choosing special music or picking a certain group to entertain guests, but it is important that you think about this as soon as you possibly can. In the case of the vows, only you know what you want to say, but you may find that you need help from friends or family to shape the words into the exact meaning that you are trying to portray. Most will be happy and willing to help if you give them the chance.
On the day
It is crucial that you have a detail plan of the timings of each event on the day. This includes waking up, getting dress, having make up done and being picked up from your home. Doing this can prevent anything from going wrong, and can help to ensure that everybody is where they need to be at the right time.
Generally, if you take everything that could possibly be an issue into consideration, you should find that you are able to put plans in place to prevent this well in advance. This means that you can sit back and enjoy a day that you are going to remember for the rest of your life.
